Relationship

05/10/2025

Values

Give

Someone who gives, someone’s generous. Because if he is generous with his money, he is generous with everything! His love, his attention, his time, his care, his forgiveness, his kindness, and everything. Someone who gives and doesn’t take only!

Confident

Someone’s confident; a real one. Because confident people know why they are confident because they always show up and they are disciplined enough to achieve their goals, and they definitely know that. That’s why they are confident!

Action

Someone who talkes actions; act and doesn’t just react. Someone’s initiative. Doesn’t wait for it but works for it; and works hard!!

Mindset

I need him to have a good mindset, a growth and discipline mindset. Someone who is also open minded and understands all opinions but has his own reasons for his mindset!

Gentle

I need him to be a gentleman and a kind person. Someone that isn’t just kind with me but have a kind heart and normally that person would love animals; kind people treat animals well and love them as well. I need him to be gentle with me, doesn’t push me or pressure me.

Safe

I need to feel safe in the relationship. If I am feeling like I am not enough, like I always trying to prove myself or to fit. This exhaustion will tear the relationship apart. Just feel that I have the safe space, that he gives me space whenever I need and that I feel that I have the safe space to tell him anything because he won’t judge.

Clarity

This one is really important to me. I want him tk be straightforward and to be clear with his intentions. I don’t want mix signals anymore. I just want someone who knows what he wants and clear with it (so am I should be as well…)

Growth

To grow together. Help each other to achieve our goals and to reach our best version of ourselves!

Patience

For me, this is a value I want in the relationship. Because I will need him to be patient with me. And I will br patient with him…

Active listening

This is a critical one, because listening actively will help us to really get to know each other and understand each other’s pov.

Respect

Basic human behaviors is to respect each other, respect each other’s opinion, mind, personality, fear, love language, principles, values, everything..

Activities together

Ping Pong Date

Deep Questions (talk)

Reading

Sushi date

Bible Study

Cinema date

Rules

God is always in the relationship

God is always our priority! He is always present in our relationship.

Be transparent

Be transparent and honest with our feelings and opinions. If we want something we say it out loud so we won’t let the other person overthink what I meant or want.