substack articles that I love

where can i apply for [insert unrealistic rom-com job]?

Cinefilles

In the 2000s every female romcom lead was a journo. In 2024 there’s nothing romantic about that

Slouching Towards Bethnal Green

The Sims is my favorite form of meditation

Side Quest

Nothing feels better than doing things you don’t want to do

Side Quest

You don’t need an “aesthetic,” you need a value system

Side Quest

for the “jack of all trades”

love letters to life

The Problem with Wanting Less

What Ever Happened

How to Waste a Morning (Properly)

The Aperitivo Pages

The September Theory

Her Edition

My first year without an iPhone

RAYON

The Chaos of Adult Life No One Warned Me About.

Does this essay have swag?

ANTO AESTHETICS

The Art of Being Alone (and Liking It)

Personal diary

How to be Whimsical

postcards by hasif

the 2am urge to reinvent your entire life

Open Tabs Club

I wish I were the woman with cashmere sweaters and matching underwear

the simple library

We have lost the art of collecting

Zara’s Substack

fighting the fig tree analogy

daily suit

Soulmatism

good riddance

To Love is To Learn

good riddance

whatever you choose in life, make sure you end up with a kind partner.

mixtapes by gor

“Everyone talks about compromise in a relationship, but I don’t think compromise really works”

Sex Happens

The Yearning Index

Cafe Hysteria

maybe intimacy isn’t taking your clothes off

mixtapes by gor

why we should forgive cheaters

personal scriptures

The intimacy in never speaking again

hannahsproblema

Help, I’m still at the restaurant

good riddance

what if love looked like this

Espresso & Essays

whatever happened to fucking around and finding out?

Voyeurism

“The spark” isn’t what you think it is

Sex and Sensibility

The weight of wanting

Narahhhh

i could never hate you

raquel's journal

i like to feel his eyes on me when i look away

thoughts of a deer

Do You Ever Get Over Your First Love?

Emilie Mendham

What If Love Was Just a Conversation?

The Third Eye

The Temptation of an Older Man

Maximalist Musings

Are age-gap relationships always messed up?

Emilie Mendham

The One about the The 10 Best Styling Tricks I Learned in 15+ Years as a Stylist, Closet Whisperer, & Recovering Fashion Insider (that noone talks about on Instagram)…

In defence of the Frazzled English Woman

Ella Off The Rails

#brainbrew 5. why your space reflects you and your psyche, and how to arrange it.

chicgirlmoment

HOW TO USE SEPTEMBER AS A RESET

The Curated by Jessica Harris

Notes On: How to Romanticise September

Notes On 💌

How to Have Your Coziest Fall

Small Pleasures

have we “over-therapised” ourselves as a society

milk and cookies

ChatGPT Is Not Your Therapist (And It’s Starting to Show)

Terms & Conditions Apply

obsession will save you

starved.

Love in the time of Vampirism

crumbs of the loaf in my skull

Why Vampires Fear the Cross

Aquinas Academy

Vampires: facts and folklore

Helltorium

A Gift Guide for Vampires

Bone Fire

Vampires and Sexuality

crumbs of the loaf in my skull

What the f*** is a situationship?

Emilie Mendham

Intimacy without commitment?

postcards by hasif

The Situationship Trap

sound off

Short-Term, Open to Long

Emilie Mendham

“Casual” isn’t real

good riddance

how to be a better villager

chapter and wild

why men need girlfriends more than women need boyfriends

Voyeurism

Your Friendships Are the Blueprint For Your Romantic Relationships.

Feifei’s Substack

22 things men do that are actually super slutty

Railed

So, You Wanna Please Someone With a Penis

Kana Crumby, PhD, CST, LPC

So, You Wanna Please Someone With a Vulva

Kana Crumby, PhD, CST, LPC

So, You Wanna Have an Orgasm?

Kana Crumby, PhD, CST, LPC

Michael Jackson and his legacy of love, light and compassion

Diaries from a Petal

Michael Jackson: Mirror to the World

Geistic Musings

the madwoman in the attic

the journal catacombs

jeff buckleyism: masculinity and prose

zombiegrrrl zine