Things you seek in a partner but can cultivate within yourself 🌸

13/01/2025

This list is for anyone who feels like they need a partner to feel whole. For those, like me, who crave affection, no matter where it comes from. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is learn to enjoy your own company. If you only feel a certain way when someone is next to you, it will most likely follow that person when they walk away. That’s why we need to cover the basics first, so nobody can take away our peace.

• Emotional security

By trusting your instinct, setting boundaries and building resilience, you can create a sense of stability and peace that’s entirely your own.

• Companionship

You’ll always have yourself. Make of yourself someone you’ll like.

• A future

Your future isn’t something someone else can define or provide for you. You have the power to envision, plan, and create a future that aligns with your dreams and values.

• Freedom of being

Express yourself and live authentically at the best of your capability. No one is there to judge.

• Feeling connected

Build healthy relationships with friends and family. Having a partner is not the only way to feel connected.

• Fun plans

Don’t wait for someone special to join you. Fill your days with those plans you dream about.

• Orgasms

Nobody knows you like you do.

• Expression

You can freely express your thoughts, emotions, and identity on your own terms.

• Purpose

Whether it’s through your passions, career, or the impact you want to make, you have the power to define what gives your life meaning.

• Self-worth

Your worth isn’t measured by anyone else’s standards. It’s rooted in how you see yourself; your unique qualities, your growth, and the love you show yourself.